My wife had been complaining about the manners of the man living upstairs who had a shady business. He would litter in the shared space, take out the trash, participate in the activities of the neighborhood association, and so on... Being a pacifist, I would calm him down by saying "don't cause too much trouble," but... My wife was appointed as an officer of the women's association this spring, and apparently she went alone to the neighbor's room on behalf of the women's division to protest... I was informed later that she had even had sex with him there...