My father-in-law has been living with me since my mother-in-law passed away. The shock to my father-in-law, who was a loving husband, is immeasurable, and he is still not eating properly and is depressed. "If there's anything I can do for you, please let me know"... I did say that, but I never expected him to say something like this... "I want to put it in... Just for 10 seconds..."