"I hid in the closet and waited for them to arrive..." I'd been married to Maki for 15 years, but I was busy with work and left all the housework to Maki. Thinking about what I could do to show her some appreciation, I created a "rest day" where we could relax once a month at a city hotel in Tokyo. Maki was delighted, and would send me pictures of the room every time she stayed there, but recently she stopped sending them. When I asked her for more, she replied, "I'm busy right now." Busy at the hotel? A while later, she sent me a picture of the room, but in it was a man's tie that wasn't mine...