My wife was always complaining about the intimidating man in the next room and his manners. From smoking in the shared space to the day to take out the trash and activities of the neighborhood association, I was a pacifist so I told him not to stir up trouble, but my wife was appointed as an officer of the women's association this spring, and apparently she went alone to the neighbor's room on behalf of the women's group to protest. I was informed later that my wife had even had sex with him there.