Why is it that Kokoro, gloomy guys aren't popular with women, yet violent men never run out of women? Violence and sex are both animalistic acts. It stirs emotions. When you're strangled, your pussy throbs. You're put in a collar and spanked so hard that you get red handprints. Then a dick is forced into your mouth and you have to deep-throat it. Your wild sexual desire is released. Maybe that's why you're attracted to violent men.