A sweet moment in a closed room should be relaxing and soothing for both body and mind, but many men get excited with anticipation in that direction, and end up feeling awkward (or excited, for some) when their penis reacts and they turn from face down to face up... There are all kinds of girls who incorporate the relaxation of ejaculation into the natural flow of things, girls who will secretly ejaculate while saying "it's a secret," girls who are doing it knowingly but pretend it was an accident... girls who will do it as a natural part of the treatment... there are all kinds.